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4 tri county living CONTENT photo by | watt casey jr. 73 36 GIDEON CARMICHAEL: A LEGACY OF INSPIRATION The life of a Haskell man is encouraging others to live joyfully. 48 SETTING HER OWN PACE Since her childhood in Ireland, Carmel Pace has loved running and competition. She has competed in numerous marathons, including the Boston Marathon during the bombing in 2013. 12 THE BOYS OF HAMLIN Hamlin Boys Club is meeting its goal to contribute to the development of Christ-like men and to promote good citizenship among members. 24 TREASURE HUNTING Betsy Parsons shares her family’s love for Albany: past, present, and future.

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pictured | paul wright 58 58 THE WRIGHT STUFF Big Country native, Paul Wright has dedicated his life to serving God and loving others regardless of his job title. 72 TRI COUNTY TRADITIONS Many Tri County communities are known for various outstanding annual events that showcase our rich history. Make plans for your Tri County tour to experience these fun filled happenings in person this year. 86 A TALE OF GREAT GENEROSITY “Matilda” Nail Cook established a trust, which consists of the largest philanthropic gift in the history of Cook Children’s Health Care System & continues to fund them to this day. 98 A HISTORY OF CARING Haskell Memorial Hospital marks 80 years of providing rural healthcare. CONTENT 6 tri county living

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Tri County Living Magazine© is published annually by Hometown Living, LLC. www.hometown-living.com 502 N Main Street PMB 116 Weatherford, TX 76086 | (817) 599-6167 PROUDLY PRINTED IN THE USA WRI TERS Becca Nelson Sankey Caitlin Richards Elizabeth York Kayla Weinkauf Michael Tummillo Sabrina Forse ON THE COVER Sully Mae Dickson PHOTOGRAPHERS Bearden Photography Captured Photography Jo Brown Photography Lindy Hudman Photography Malarie Sutton Photography CREAT IVE | DESIGN Susan Avery, Lead John Shallenberger SALES ACCOUNT MANAGER Johnna Oman Page PUBLISHERS Matt & Heather Martin matt@hometown-living.com Casey & Trisha Perkins casey@hometown-living.com AD|CONTENT MANAGER Tabitha Baase-Herring content@hometown-living.com Heather Lundgren Martin, Co-Publisher Hey Tri County! My husband, Matt, and I have been married almost thirteen years and started our publishing company eleven years ago, mimicking his parent’s publishing firm in Georgia. We are grateful to have their expertise as they have been in publishing over 35 years. Tri County Living is an annual publication encompassing Jones, Haskell, & Shackelford counties and features the people, places, and businesses that make this such an amazing place to call home, as I know full well. I was beyond excited when my friend, Johnna Oman Page, first shared a desire to start a Hometown Living Magazine here in our hometown. In God’s perfect timing, he opened the door to make this possible and birthed the concept of TCL while she and I shared a cup of coffee and prayer. We could not be more thrilled & thankful with the result of our premier edition and hope you agree. (Check out Johnna’s Page (8) and get to know the face of Tri County Living). My family has farmed and ranched in Jones county for seven generations. Johnna’s family and my own have also been neighbors and friends for many of those generations and I am so thankful to continue that tradition. Like our readers, I am proud to be from “God’s Country.” The amazing thing about this first edition is already learning new things about the area that has been home for so long. Did you know that Cook Children’s Hospital was not only named after, but created by a family right here in Albany? We welcome you to share your article ideas with us for consideration in future editions. Email content@ hometown-living.com or johnnapage@yahoo.com for submissions. We hope you too learn something you didn’t already know about this amazing Tri County area which is rich with tradition, history, agriculture, and the best people I know. TCL comes at no cost to you thanks to the generosity of our advertisers. So please let them know you saw their ad in TRI COUNTY LIVING and remember to SHOP LOCAL. If you are interested in seeing your business in TCL contact Johnna at 325.669.1149. Check out our Tri County Traditions section and schedule your staycation by planning to attend the flurry of events that take place annually here in your own backyard. Publ i sher ’ s Note Matt & Heather Martin Casey & Trisha Perkins Blessings to you in 2020, “I will give thanks to you, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonderful deeds.” Psalm 9:1 All rights reserved. Copies or reproduction of this publication in whole or in part is strictly prohibited without expressed written authorization from the publisher. Every effort is made to ensure the accuracy of the information contained herein. Advertising is subject to omission, errors, and other changes without notice. Premier Edition 2020 8 tri county living

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10 tri county living Local Roots Run Deep: I was raised with my four sisters by my parents, John Bill & Belinda Oman, on a farm and ranch 15 miles east of Stamford in the Ericksdahl community. Growing up, we were active members of Bethel Lutheran Church, the Jones County 4-H and the Stamford FFA Chapter. I graduated from Texas A&M University in 1999. It was through these early experiences that I developed a deep love for agriculture and small town life. I was fortunate to marry my husband, Sutton, who grew up in Eldorado, Texas and who also shares the same passion for this way of life. We lived in San Angelo for 10 years where I worked in pharmaceutical sales and Sutton worked for Texas Farm Bureau. In 2012, we had the opportunity to move to Stamford to farm full-time and we now live on a farm in Ericksdahl where we are raising our daughter, Quincy. My maternal great great grandfather, Dr. J.A. Stamline, came to Ericksdahl in 1905 and was a founding pastor of Bethel Lutheran Church where my family still attends today. My paternal great grandfather, C.J. Oman, came to Texas from Sweden in 1881 and came to this area in 1906. We actually live on one of the first farms that he bought when he came here. Favorite Sales/Memory: Selling for Tri County Living has been the most fun I have ever had at work! The people in our area are the most warm, genuine, kind and caring people in the world and I am so proud to live here. I have so many great memories, but my favorite so far was my first day working in Haskell and I was invited to attend the Rotary Club meeting that day. I felt instantly welcomed and it just reinforced for me why I love this area so much. Where will we find you when you’re not selling?: You will most likely find me organizing a closet, cabinet or drawer! I have always enjoyed doing this for my own home and recently started working as a professional organizer helping busy families organize their homes. You will find me volunteering in various capacities in our community, and occasionally you will find me in the air with my family. My husband is a pilot and we love to go on flying adventures. Our favorite flying trips have been to Park City, Utah and Santa Fe, New Mexico. In my free time, you will find me reading, listening to podcasts, exercising, entertaining family and friends and watching Hallmark movies with my daughter. Our Goal: Tri County Living is a dream come true and I am so thankful to get to be a part of such a special endeavor. Tri County Living will be a way to connect our small towns together beyond Friday night lights. Each county has such special qualities which the magazine is able to showcase! Each issue will consist of the people, places, and things that make our area so great! I love the idea of “hometown tourism” and the magazine is a great way for us to learn more about the attractions and services that are available to us locally in our neighboring communities. J OHNNA’ S PAGE Sutton, Quincy, Johnna Page Photos by Cameron Copelenad Photography ohnna has a long career in public service and sales, and had great success as an Account Executive with our Abilene Living Magazine branch. We are thrilled to have her many talents on hand here as the TCL Account Manager. Get to know one of my favorite people, and the face of Tri County Living, Johnna Oman Page. Thank you for your support and for reading Tri County Living Magazine. - Heather Lundgren Martin, Co-Publisher J

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THE BOYS OF HAMLIN Hamlin Boys Club is meeting its goal to contribute to the development of Christ-like men and to promote good citizenship among members. written by michael tummillo | photos provided by dan byerly

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14 tri county living hen it comes to leaving a legacy, every man should desire to have the impact Dan Byerly is having on the boys of Hamlin through TrailLife USA (TLUSA), aka, the Hamlin Boys Club (HBC). A part of HBC for the past 20 years, Byerly’s own sons have been positively affected by the club. His oldest son was awarded the Eagle Scout through the Boy Scouts of America (BSA), and his 17-year-old son is currently working on earning the HBC Freedom Award. A Freedom Award in TLUSA is the highest award offered by the Christ-based group which was established after the mass exodus from the BSA, taking place after they accepted boys and leaders who ascribed to an alternative sexual identity.“While we may look quite a bit like the Boy Scouts, that’s because so many of the leaders who created our TLUSA handbooks and methods came from their ranks,” said Byerly. “We have similar things to teach the boys about the outdoors and responsibility but with the influences of Christ.” “TrailLife USA is unapologetically Christian,” he stated. The purpose of HBC is quite a noble one; to create strong husbands who know their rights and duties as American citizens. “We want to contribute to the development of Christ-like men who will work with boys so they can mimic their skills, from interaction with others to first-aid techniques. We want to assist in the development of productive citizens who just happen to be Christians.” W

15 hometown living at its best “We want to contribute to the development of Christ-like men who will work with boys so they can mimic their skills, from interaction with others to first-aid techniques. We want to assist in the development of productive citizens who just happen to be Christians.” -Dan Byerly

16 tri county living So, how much impact can a small group of 20, twelve to eighteen-year-old boys, really have on a community? Byerly enthusiastically shared about the PlayMaker and Weekend Warr ior programs, concepts which were initiated by the boys themselves that are having a far-reaching effect on the region’s youth. “When we were trying to come up with a fundraiser idea, while I was thinking car washes and bake sales, it was the boys themselves who said they recognized their classmates were lacking in personal and spiritual development. They were sold on the idea of giving back and thought it would be great if their friends had a chance to listen to myself and Coach Russell Lucas. Coach Lucas embraced the concept and developed it into what is now the PlayMaker program.” What started out as a local fundraising project has expanded far beyond its original scope. “I called Coach Lucas and asked if he knew some men who might come speak to the kids at school. He started making calls and got a hold of all these guys that he’d coached with over the years. We wound up with 22 speakers!”

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19 hometown living at its best The first year, PlayMakers was held at Moody Coliseum and had as speakers Brad, Colt and Case McCoy, Steve and Case Keenum, Sam Harrell, Bob Shipley and Coach (D.W.) Rutledge from the Texas High School Coaches Association... an all-star lineup. Over the years, speakers have included Coach Grant Teaff, Col. Craig Flowers, Director of Cadet Activities at the U.S. Mi l itary Academy at West Point, and many other legendary coaches. This event raised over $80,000 for area youth activities over the last five years and awarded over $20,000 in college scholarships, much better than a car wash would have done. Another event stemmed from this one. They call it the Weekend Warriors. “It’s a similar event with high profile speakers addressing boys, youth leaders and coaches. We intend to add a girl’s weekend later. We’ve just connected with a young man named Stephen Mackey at 2Words Development, with a Ch r i s t -based character development program which he brings to school systems. So, we started in 2017 by investing $3,000 to bring him to Hamlin, Stamford and Haskell schools.” Byerly continued, “When we joined the 2Words program in 2017, only 25 total schools across the state were participating. In 2018, over 200 schools were involved. To date, over 600 schools are participating.” Byerly added that Coach Lucas has just been named Hamlin Collegiate ISD’s Director of Character Development and other schools are looking to add similar positions to make what they’ve done with 2Words part of their core curriculum. Learn more at www.2words.tv. This is the Weekend Warrior event...ever seeking to move forward with concepts and ideas, Byerly said, “In April, we tested a new format with campsites and tents.” Still impressed with his scouts, he said, “It’s amazing that, over five years ago, these young boys recognized the weakness within the character of their classmates and wanted to help them. PlayMaker is a terrific example of a grassroots model.” He added, “Coach Lucas and I partner on PlayMaker, he recruits the speakers and I do the planning. He was awarded the Grant Teaff Coaching Beyond the Game Award, out of all the coaches in Texas. This award is based upon your influences, not wins and losses. That speaks well of his PlayMaker involvement.” When asked if the young men who have participated in Trail Life were being recognized for their accompl ishments the way Eagle Scouts have been over the generations, Byerly reported that, yes, universities are very aware of this Christian alternative to the BSA. † For more information on the Hamlin Boys Club, PlayMaker or Weekend Warriors programs, contact Dan at dan@ekdahlrealestate.net or call him at 325-665-3489. The TLUSA website is TrailLifeUSA.com and HBC can be found on Facebook. Another event stemmed from this one. They call it the Weekend Warriors. “It’s a similar event with high profile speakers addressing boys, youth leaders and coaches.”

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25 hometown living at its best Treasure HUNTING written by kayla weinkauf photos by malarie sutton photography & provided by the ojac Betsy Parsons shares her family’s love for Albany: past, present, and future.

26 tri county living Few things are more exciting than a treasure hunt. What secrets and surprises are hidden around us? What would we discover after a little digging? Money? Jewels? Perhaps something even more valuable—like pillars and platforms that tell the story of our shared history. What would a treasure like that be worth? For Betsy Parsons, preserving the places that tell Albany’s story is worth more than gold. “I come from a long line of Shackelford County residents. I grew up in Albany and only left to attend college. Then I came right back,” she laughed. From early on, Betsy’s parents instilled in her and her two sisters the importance of giving back. “My parents valued civic responsibility. They wanted us to know that nice things in our community didn’t just happen. Someone put time and energy into making them happen—and we should be part of that.” Betsy and her husband of 40 years, Mike, both lifelong citizens of Albany, share a passion for community involvement and historic preservation. “Some of our friends own vacation homes in different places. While Mike and I enjoy traveling, we chose to invest in our hometown.” They started with the restoration of The Whitney Theatre, which now serves as the Albany Dance Theatre Company, where Betsy teaches. “We bought and restored it simply out of necessity. My dance studio had outgrown our space. Building renovation is a passion, but fine arts is my trade. I’ve taught dance for a lifetime. I worked for my predecessor, Margie Bray. When Margie died, she left me the studio.” “My dancers were so grateful for the new space. Adults sometimes disappoint me—kids never do. Children do their best to rise to your expectations.” Betsy has invested 40 years of her time and talents into Albany youth. She served a 30-year tenure (20 as president) on the school board. Three years ago, she retired after a 24-year stint as Artistic Director of the Fort Griffin Fandangle. Betsy and Mike uncovered 20-foot-high limestone walls while renovating the Whitney.

27 hometown living at its best “My parents valued civic responsibility. They wanted us to know that nice things in our community didn’t just happen. Someone put time and energy into making them happen—and we should be part of that.” -Betsy Parsons The Whitney Mike and Betsy with Jody selecting trims in the hotel they are restoring.

28 tri county living These ornate, hand-pressed tin ceiling tiles can be found in Patti Jones’ store, Me & Mrs. Jones.

29 hometown living at its best “Robert Nail, Jr. was a wonderful playwright and mentor to many in Albany. While attending Princeton, he was mentored by Thornton Wilder. When Robert returned home to Albany following his father’s death, Wilder reassured him, ‘Your career doesn’t have to end. Go home. Write about things you know.’ Robert wrote about growing up in rural west Texas—which later inspired the Fandangle.” For 80 year s , the Fandangle has commemorated Fort Griffin and shared the history of the Texas Frontier through singing, dancing, pantomime, and pageantry. The two weekend June production features over 250 Albany performers. Her mother asked, “Are you sure you can do this?” when Betsy was first approached to direct. “They seem to think I can,” Parsons laughed in response. “Mother told me ‘not to embarrass the family.’ She’d prod you with light-hearted challenges, encouraging you to put forth your best effort.” Over the years, the Fandangle has entertained audiences from across the globe, including presidents and foreign diplomats. “It was a tremendous honor to be a part of it for so long. When you live in a small hamlet with less than 2,000 people, everyone has genuine concern for the community as a whole. Working col lect ively on the Fandangle—a kinship grows that transcends fr iendship or mere acquaintance—it’s a bond.” Don’t let the retirements mislead you. Parsons is a self-professed ball of energy with no plans of slowing down. “We have five children and 15 grandkids. We’re looking to enjoy our sauciest part of life!” she laughed. Bob Nail at Groundbreaking of Prairie Theater, 1965 From the Collections of the Robert E. Nail, Jr. Archives of the Old Jail Art Center, Albany, TX Bob Nail Directing Stagecoach at LGJ Ranch, 1967 From the Collections of the Robert E. Nail, Jr. Archives of the Old Jail Art Center, Albany, TX Margie, Betsy, and two other ladies from Fandangle.

30 tri county living To date, the Parsons own 13 pieces of commercial real estate across Shackelford County. The Whitney renovation whet their appetites for historic renovation. Their next preservation project started when a former drug store closed that held special significance. “Over the years my grandfather owned drugstores in Graham, Jacksboro, and Moran. My father asked for a job, but my grandfather advised him to ‘cut his teeth working for another boss first.’ So, my father took a job at the drugstore in Albany. My mother worked in the dress shop next door. That’s how they met.” Parsons couldn’t stand to see the drugstore, once the hub of downtown, closed and cast aside. “One day my husband asked, ‘Want to buy it?’ I said, ‘Sure!’ We restored it to its 1929 grandeur—Mahogany wood, stained glass, and tile floors. Today it’s a novelty—a working pharmacy with a café and soda fountain.” “We love old bui ldings. It’s the worst addiction because they aren’t always forthcoming. You see pictures of them in their grandeur—but you’re never sure what you’ll find. Rotted walls and bad ceilings can make you think, ‘I’ve lost my mind. Nothing’s salvageable!” The thrill of possibility in her tone, she continued, “It’s an adventurous treasure hunt. Buildings aren’t born ugly. You peel back the layers until you find its original beauty. We’ve found: 20-foot-high limestone walls, deep set windows hidden by plaster, and the prettiest, most ornate hand-pressed tin ceilings you’ve ever seen! The past always leaves beautiful things for people to discover— you just have to be willing to get dirty and look for them.” With numerous irons in the fire—I asked Betsy how she combats stress when she’s feeling the heat. “Playing piano is my therapy. Mother wanted me to become a concert pianist. I didn’t pursue that. When I’m rattled, I play. But it’s just my thing. I never play publicly.” She confessed her dream job would actually be doing yard maintenance—which makes sense for someone who clearly possesses a deep love for uncovering the beauty in places others may overlook. Betsy said her husband, Mike, inspires her daily. “No matter the project, Mike says, ‘Go for it! Think of who will benefit from you doing what you do best.’ I couldn’t ask for a better cheerleader.” “We’re currently restoring two downtown buildings that were left to fall into disarray. We’re trying to bring them back to life as a hotel. It’ll be quaint with four or five suites, two-story verandas, and gathering space outside.” These decaying structures have had multiple lives: banks, pharmacies, grease pits, newsrooms. The Parsons have dedicated their lives to restoring them in a way that honors the past and gives hope that future generations will be able to enjoy them for years to come. “When you love something, you want to do your very best for it. We invested in our community. We’ve worked with and lived in Albany with some of the best people in the world. You can’t get better returns on your investment than that.” † “Playing piano is my therapy. Mother wanted me to become a concert pianist. I didn’t pursue that. When I’m rattled, I play. But it’s just my thing. I never play publicly.” -Betsy Parsons Betsy Parsons Betsy’s mother

31 hometown living at its best “We love old buildings. It’s an adventurous treasure hunt. You peel back the layers until you find its original beauty. The past always leaves beautiful things for people to discover—you just have to be willing to get dirty and look for them.” -Betsy Parsons Mike and Betsy with Jody standing out front of the hotel which also has Patti Jones’s store located in the front.

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37 hometown living at its best B The life of a Haskell man is encouraging others to live joyfully. wri t ten by sabrina forse | photos provided by the carmichael fami ly Gideon Carmichael: A Legacy of Inspiration The Bible verse was printed on a silicone bracelet and left behind by a Haskell man who dedicated his life to doing just that. “The context of the verse is when King David is old and is telling his son that he will die soon. He encourages his son to be strong, be faithful to God, and to live in a way that honors Him,” said Beth Carmichael. Beth found the bracelet on her son’s dresser shortly after he died at age twenty-five in a helicopter crash on November 20, 2017. By living with a servant’s heart and a zeal for adventure, Gideon Carmichael left a legacy that continues to inspire others. “I think that’s what any parent would want, for their kids to love others and to live their faith. Gideon wasn’t perfect. He had struggles and difficult times, but it makes us proud to know that he touched so many lives. We were not aware of just how much impact he had until after his death.” Gideon was the owner of Carmichael Helicopter Services, a flight company that provided agriculture and ranching services such as herding cattle, game and wildlife surveys, and predator control. “One of the things that I admired about Gideon was that he knew who he was and what his goals were even from a young age. He was strong-willed and strong-minded,” said Claire Rice, Gideon’s younger sister. “He came to his faith in Christ at a young age and it carried him through life.” “Be strong, act like a man.” 1 Kings 2:2

38 tri county living Gideon enjoyed flying, hunting, fishing, wakeboarding, snowboarding and rodeo. He finished in the top ten in the state two years while team roping in the Texas High School Rodeo Association (THSRA). He was also a calfroper. The friends he made while in the arena wanted to honor his passion in a way that would also give back. “Sammy Larned approached my husband and I about re-naming the team roping at Wild Horse Prairie Days after Gideon. He told us that Gideon was an inspiration to many people and had done a lot of good for Haskell and the surrounding communities,” explained Beth. Wi ld Horse Prairie Days hosted the first Gideon Carmichael Memorial Team Roping in 2018. “We were overwhelmed by the response. They had to actually cut off the number of entries. This past summer, they had another great response,” said Beth. The overwhelming response was proof that Gideon’s life impacted others. “Gideon had one of those infectious personalities that people were drawn to,” said Claire. “He made everyone feel welcome and had the ability to get along with everyone. He had a servant’s heart and he would’ve given the shirt off his back for not only the people he knew and loved, but for people he didn’t know at all.” Gideon was involved with Wishes for Warriors, an organization that offers help and support to combat veterans through outdoor experiences like hunting and fishing. “He flew many hours and many vets, taking them on aerial hog hunts. It was something very close to his heart. He appreciated veterans and their sacrifices and knew that was why he was free and able to do the things he did. He wanted to give back,” said Beth. Gideon was also a member of the West Texas Air Force, a group of pilots dedicated to serving others in need. Gideon and fellow pilots assisted in relief efforts during Hurricane Harvey. “They stopped in Dallas to pick up blood to take to Houston. In Houston, they flew doctors in and out of the city and delivered food and water to shelters. They also spent hours looking for people stranded on their roofs and moving livestock to higher ground,” said Beth. “That was typical Gideon. He didn’t ever want the attention, he just wanted to help.” Gideon with the Red Stag he got with his bow hunting in New Zealand.

39 hometown living at its best “Gideon had one of those infectious personalities that people were drawn to, he made everyone feel welcome and had the ability to get along with everyone. He had a servant’s heart and he would’ve given the shirt off his back for not only the people he knew and loved, but for people he didn’t know at all.” - Claire Rice Gideon senior year

40 tri county living The Carmichael fami ly knew that giving spirit needed to continue. Shortly after his death, they started the Gideon Carmichael Memorial Scholarship Fund. Proceeds from the Gideon Carmichael Memorial Team Roping in Haskell benefit that scholarship fund. “The scholarship is for seniors that want to go to vocational, technical, or trade schools,” said Beth. “Gideon had the opportunity to go to college, but he decided against it. He knew what he wanted to do and that was to fly helicopters. He worked hard, earned his private and commercial licenses and ended up having a very successful business.” Since its inception two years ago, six students have been awarded a $1,000 scholarship. “Traditional college isn’t for everyone and isn’t always an option for some. We want to encourage kids to learn skills that can help them be successful. Some of the types of schools that scholarship recipients have attended are welding, cosmetology, culinary and firefighting school.”

41 hometown living at its best Profits from another Gideon Carmichael Memorial Roping wi l l now also boost the scholarship fund and help students in the Stamford area. “One of Gideon’s close friends, Wesley Moss, who he roped and trained with at the NRS Center in Decatur wanted to do something to honor Gideon,” said Beth. There is now a United Pro Rodeo Association (UPRA) team roping in honor of Gideon in Stamford that coincides with the Texas Cowboy Reunion. “There was a huge turnout. So, because of the success of the other scholarship fund, we are setting one up with Stamford ISD to help students there, just like in Haskell.” Knowing that his legacy is enabling others to pursue their passion is something that Claire believes her brother would’ve been proud of. “I hope people are inspired by his life to chase after their own passions. What we learned from his accident is that life can be short, but Gideon accomplished so much and went after his dreams.” Helping others pursue their dreams was just as important to Gideon. “Gideon took me on a hunt in Colorado. He had been there three times before trying to get a mountain lion. Instead of trying to get it for himself, he told me, ‘This is your time’,” said Claire. “That’s who Gideon was. He was always trying to get others to experience life.” Hew, Beth, Claire, Caleb, Lucy, Wyatt and Gideon at Claire and Caleb’s wedding. Lucy, Claire, and Gideon holding Wyatt after a baseball game. Gideon and Claire from the mountain lion hunt.

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43 hometown living at its best Whether as a relative, friend, client or someone who simply shook his hand, those impacted by Gideon’s life continue to be inspired by the way he lived. “Treat people with kindness and respect even when you might not feel like it,” said Claire. “I hope people know that they can have an impact on someone simply by smiling. So many people, even in other countries, reached out to let us know the impact Gideon had on their lives. When people hear his name, I hope it will be a reminder to keep faith, keep laughing and find joy. There’s always something to be grateful for.” † Monetary donations can be made to the following: Gideon Carmichael Memorial Scholarship c/o Haskell CISD PO Box 937 Haskell, Texas 79521 c/o Stamford ISD 507 South Orient Street Stamford, Texas 79553

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Since her childhood in Ireland, Carmel Pace has loved running and competition. She has competed in numerous marathons, including the Boston Marathon during the bombing in 2013. written by elizabeth york | photos by jo brown photography & whimsy smith photography setting her own PACE

50 tri county living When she moved to Abi lene in the ear ly ’90s to work at the West Texas Rehabi l i tat ion Center as an audiologist, Carmel Pace only planned to be in the area to establish her career and make enough money to move with her young son, Stephen, back to her native Ireland. As the eighth of nine children, Carmel (née Maher) was born in 1962 and grew up in County Tipperary, a rural region in the center of the Emerald Isle. Her parents, Jack and Elizabeth “Lil,” were dairy farmers and raised crops. Carmel grew an early love for sports such as basketball. When a friend of hers joined a running club, Carmel did too. As a teenager, she ran for the Nenagh Olympic Athletic Club, competing in the 100-meter hurdle race and the 400-meter hurdles. “I liked the friendships and camaraderie of it,” Pace remembers. “It was an outlet. I got to travel quite a bit in competitions against various countries in Europe. When I began to have a little success, it motivated me to do it more.” By the time she won the national title for the 400-meter hurdles twice, Pace had gained visibility. Her coaches contacted track coaches in the United States, and Pace was offered a scholarship at Wichita State University in Wichita, Kansas. “I wanted to go to school and run at the same time. At home, it wasn’t as easy to do that,” Pace said. “That was really the motivation for me.” Gowing up in Irelad - Carmel pictured with her sister, Maureen, and brother, Timothy. High school hurdles race Wichita State University Track with Coach J.K. Kornelson 2nd Place International High School Competition

51 hometown living at its best At 5’5”, Pace set a formidable speed for her stature. “I think I was a very strong runner with determination,” she said. “It was partly about overcoming adversity. In hurdles, you are presented with 10 obstacles from the start to the finish. There are times you fall and get hurt. But I had a lot of drive and loved to compete – as much with myself as against others.” At Wichita State, Pace adjusted to being away from home and competed at her best, running the 400-meter hurdles and in the 4x400-meter relay. Her senior year, she won the 400-meter hurdles in the Gateway Collegiate Athletic Conference. She earned her bachelor’s degree in education in ’86 and stayed at the university as a graduate student and as an assistant coach for track and cross country. In 1989, Pace became a single mom, and in 1990, she graduated with her master’s degree in audiology. A friend in the same field had landed in San Angelo and encouraged Pace to apply to the same company. Pace had never heard of Abilene, but eagerly accepted a position in the outpatient rehabilitation center. Being there grew on her quickly. “I really fell in love with my job at the time,” she said. “As an audiologist, it is such a people-oriented role, and allows you to improve people’s lives. I took a great deal of satisfaction in being able to help all kinds of people, giving them back the opportunity to hear and to reconnect with their family members.” “I think I was a very strong runner with determination. I had a lot of drive and loved to compete – as much with myself as against others.” –Carmel Pace

Somehow as a wife, mother, and professional, Pace never took a break from running. She only changed her approach. “When the kids were in school, I began running distance,” she said. “My love for running changed – it became more of a personal time and a release.” Throughout the years, Pace has competed in nine marathons. She participated in the 2013 Boston Marathon, and was present the day of the bombing. “The journey to the goal is often a bigger part of it than the actual completion of the goal itself.” –Carmel Pace Carmel Pace with Renee Gober

53 hometown living at its best BOSTON MARATHON EXPERIENCE in Carmel’s Words: “Patriots Day, April 15, 2013 will forever be etched in my memory, it was the day of the 113th running of the Boston Marathon but also the day that something unimaginable happened. I had run this race twice before, so I knew the routine. This day started out like all the others, an early rise, a quick trek into Boston to catch the bus, along with thousands of other nervous athletes, 26 miles out to Hopkinton to the athletes village where we would wait for the start of the race. I remember it was a cool morning, but everyone was in good spirits and we chatted and ate and relaxed as best we could. The race started and off we went. I was eager to put in a good performance because I thought of the privilege of just being able to run a race that so many do not get to run as you have to qualify with a specific time to be able to even apply. It’s the Olympics of marathon running and holds a place of prestige for many long-distance runners. My son Stephen, who is a Marine veteran, accompanied me to the race that year and we had planned to meet along the route. My race went well and just before mile 26, I saw Stephen and his friends, and we hugged and gave high fives and he quietly whispered to me, “Your day is done Mom.” I had no idea what he was talking about. I laughed and told him I would be right back once I finished the race, I only had 500 more yards to go and I would have completed my third Boston marathon, but alas that was not to be. I heard nothing, I saw nothing, and had no thought of what was about to happen. Stephen told me there had been a bombing at the finish line and his friend Zach had gone to help the paramedics. My heart stopped. Then the panic started. Barricades were setup right in front of us and the race was being stopped. There were thousands of people just stopped on the road with nowhere to go. Some were crying and others praying, and many were just staring into space. Sirens were going off everywhere. We were in an area where there were many businesses and many of them opened their doors and allowed us to use their offices for refuge. We formed lines to allow people to use the phone to call loved ones. I met a lady who was distraught her husband and young baby were at the finish line and she was afraid for their safety. We were cold and hungry, and they provided us with blankets and food and everyone just helped as they could. After what seemed like hours, we walked back in silence to our hotel. Nobody spoke. It was surreal. I remember walking by Fenway Park and thought of the joy and happiness of all the fans that had been at the game earlier in the day and came out on the streets to cheer us on and now it was desolate. The next day we walked by the finish line and it was covered in flowers and photos to commemorate those who were injured and had lost their lives just 24 hours before. What had started off as such a joyous occasion, ended in such a senseless tragedy. My son never left my side and it made me realize how fortunate we were to just be alive. I have thought many times of what might have been - if the bomb had gone off in the athlete’s village or if I had run just a few minutes faster… but those thoughts fade away and are replaced with feelings of gratitude for the blessing of life. It has been many years since that fateful day, yet as I write these words on this page, I still feel the anxiety of those moments. I believe we cannot let cruel events dampen our spirit and when I was invited to return to Boston for the 114th running of the marathon in 2014, I never gave it a second thought and said “yes.” My husband and family shared in my resolve to not let hatred win, and I returned the following year and shed a tear as I passed the spot I stood at the year before when my son told me my race was over. I paused, said a prayer and with renewed energy went on to finish the race I had started and could not finish 12 months earlier. I was proud of all the people who showed up and ran that day in solidarity with one another and who epitomized the slogan “Boston Strong”. Pace runs about 10 to 12 hours each week. She has trained with running partner, Renee Gober, for about 10 years. “She pushes me to know I can do anything,” Gober said. “She’s older than me, but she’s a heck of a lot tougher.” When Gober recently suggested they try new competitions, Pace began training for triathlons and Half Ironmans. “Patrick is my coach,” Pace said. “He comes with me to competitions and takes care of my bike and encourages me.” Pace’s passion to meet her next set of goals is unrelenting. “I think the feeling of accomplishment is a big part of it,” she said. “I find that, a lot of times, the journey to the goal is often a bigger part of it than the actual completion of the goal itself.” The grandmother of eight continues to inspire. “Carmel is a source of happiness to others because she’s positive and upbeat,” Gober said. About three decades after she moved to Texas, Pace is pleased to call herself a Texan. “Living in West Texas has been a wonderful privilege of mine,” she said. “I love the sunsets here and the people have been most kind and welcoming.” † “My husband and family shared inmy resolve to not let hatred win, and I returned the following year and shed a tear as I passed the spot I stood at the year before when my son toldmemy race was over. I paused, said a prayer and with renewed energy went on to finish the race I had started and could not finish 12 months earlier.” –Carmel Pace

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THE WRIGHT STUFF written by caitlin richards | photos by heather lundgren martin Big Country native, Paul Wright has dedicated his life to serving God and loving others regardless of his job title, of which there are many. ven though Paul Wright has l ived the majority of his l ife in the Big Country, he didn’t plan it that way. If he had it his way, he would have bui lt his l ife and raised his family in the Dallas area. Lucki ly, for the Tri-Area communities, God had other plans for Paul right here at home in Jones County. “I really didn’t want to do anything back in this area but that was the door God opened and I had no choice but to go,” said Paul. “Little did I know, God was working in midst of it al l and I had not a clue.” Paul was born in Dallas, but moved to Knox City with his mother when he was in first grade. They then moved to Munday, where he graduated high school . He at tended Ci sco Junior Col lege, but graduated from Howard Payne Uni ver s i ty wi th a degree in music. After graduation, Paul moved to Dal las to work wi th Texas Youth Commission serving del inquent youth. While in Dallas, Paul reconnected with his high school friend, Lola. They got married after two years of dating and started their l ives together in Dal las. After some time, Lola was ready to come back to Abi lene to be closer to fami ly and Paul reluctantly agreed. E 58 tri county living

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60 tri county living the deal, which changed my whole at t i tude about being there.” Whi le finishing up the paperwor k , Pau l heard the S tamford Bu l ldog March i ng Band practicing outside with hi s mus ical ear . He enjoyed the sound and commented to the secretary how good they sounded and that he actual ly studied music in col lege. The secretary told Paul they had j us t h i red a band d i rector , and we r e act ua l l y l ook i ng for another one. “Two weeks THE WRIGHT STUFF later they hired me as a band di rector and I have been in Stamford ever since,” said Paul. Ove r t he 10 yea r s Pau l taught at Stamford, the Bulldog Marching Band ranked highly at con tes t yea r af te r year and was even awa r ded a sweepstakes title. Paul loved working as a band di rector ; teaching students about music and being able to impact their l ives. However, he felt a pul l from God towards a different career. Work ing for Lanier Copy Ma c h i n e C omp a n y , n o w known as Tos h i ba Bu s i nes s Solutions, Paul purposely took a ter r i tory cover ing the San Angelo area. However , one day his co-worker was sick and he had to come to Stamford to close a deal with the Stamford Independent School Di str ict . “I told my boss no, and she r em i n d e d me s h e wa s n ’ t asking me, she was telling me,” said Paul . “So, I grudgingl y wen t and ac t ua l l y c l o s ed Paul heard the Stamford Bulldog Marching Band practicing outside with his musical ear. The secretary told Paul they had just hired a band director, and were actually looking for another one. “Two weeks later they hired me as a band director and I have been in Stamford ever since.” ~ Paul Wright

61 hometown living at its best Unsure of the exact job, Paul knew it was in ministry. He visited with St. John’s United Methodist Church Pastor John Irwin to share what was on his heart. Pastor John responded to him by asking what he would think about taking over the local youthministry –Common Ground. “I said, ‘No, that is not what I am talking about, no sir,’ and I walked out,” said Paul. “I will never forget that day.” Paul had no idea, but the current leader ofCommonGround was leaving. While he was still praying about what to do, one of his band students gave him the confirmation hewas searching for. One day before class, a student lookedat himand said, “whydon’t you come be our youth pastor?” He responded by telling her to go to class. “Godhadopened that door,” said Paul. “He was preparing me the whole time and I had not a clue. I will never forget her saying that. Little does she know; God was using her that day. It was my confirmation.” Since 2004, Paul has been serving the Stamford community by leading the Common Ground ministry that serves youth from various denominations all over Stamford. He has grown the ministry fromaone-hour serviceon Wednesday to a place for youth to come and be known. He says the Lord showed him the youth needed a place to come to talk, to be prayed with and loved on. “It didn’t need to be a one-day thing,” said Paul. “It needed to be an everyday thing.” KINGDOM POWER GLORY

62 tri county living Paul is an associate pastor at St. John’s United Methodist Church and serves on the worship team with his gifted voice. THE WRIGHT STUFF For 15 years, Paul has been there for Stamford’s youth at Common Ground. But his ministry began even before when he was in the band hall. Paul is also an associate pastor at St. John’s United Methodist Church and serves on the worship team with his gifted voice. Youth outside of Stamford are also blessed by Paul. He travels to other Tri County and Big Country communities to facilitate band clinics. “After theband rehearses and I give themfeedback andwework on things, at the end we always closewithadevotional,” saidPaul. “I believe every opportunity I have is also an opportunity to share the Word of God. Really, every day is an opportunity for that.”

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65 hometown living at its best A special way Paul and Lola love God’s people as He calls His people too is through fostering children. Together, the Wright’s have had over 100 children come through their home through fostering, adopting or just helping them get on their feet and prepared to start life as an adult. Even though those children would say they were blessed by the Wrights, the Wrights are quick to say they truly are the ones who have been blessed. This historic hotel was converted to a home for the Wright family allowing them to foster many children at once. “I believe ever y opportunity I have is also an opportunity to share the Word of God. Really, every day is an opportunity for that.” ~ Paul Wright

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67 hometown living at its best There is much more Paul does for the Tri County and Big Country communities than many realize. Including serving as the Stamford Bulldog Football team Chaplin, mentoring area band directors and leading a weekly devotional during lunch at Paint Creek High School. It is just his nature to seek out any opportunity he can to share the Word of God and to make a difference in the lives of others. He says his prayer for students and the people of these communities is to understand and embrace they arechildren of God and to put Him first in everything. “If wecan learn tobeaunified body of Christ, we would be able to loveGod’s peopleGod’s way,” said Paul. “We would truly be able to make a difference, get along and love each other. If we want to see lives changed, we need to loveGod’s people theway he says to love them.” †

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