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4 tri county living magazine { CONTENT } PEARLS OF WISDOM, four-part series 14 Dallas Acklin, Hamlin 26 Refugio Granado Gonzales, Stamford 36 Wilma Jo Tucker Mitchell, Albany 42 Mary Jo Williamson Blankenship, Anson Enjoy the pearls of wisdom gained from speaking to our neighbors across the Tri County area who know a lot because they have seen a lot over the past 100 years. This four part series will continue into the 2022 edition as well so stay tuned. 18 HOMETOWN TOURISM From unique boutiques to a vast selection of antiques, Haskell, Jones and Shackelford Counties are unique shopping destinations. Nestled in the heart of our historic downtowns, you can shop, visit museums, and experience culture. 52 JAMES WASHINGTON: FROM STAMFORD TEXAS TO THE NFL END ZONE A hometown standout is “Steeling” the show in the NFL. On the Cover James Washington Photo provided by J. Washington Mgt. 64 HOMETOWN HUNTIN’ We invite all of you to share your outdoor photos with us this season. 68 THE MAKING OF A CHAMPION Haskell native, Weston Rutkowski, fights his way to becoming a World Champion. 14, 26, 36, 42 64 68

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6 tri county living magazine { CONTENT } 76 HOMETOWN MEMORIAL Remembering John Matthews of Albany (1919-2020). 82 SO GOD MADE A FARMER Paul Harvey’s 1978 speech to the FFA. 91 BY WHAT WE GIVE Fareed Hassen, a humble neighbor and friend. 100 UNTO THE LEAST OF THESE Based in Anson, Lighthouse Ministry is standing in the gap providing assistance where help is needed. 108 HOMETOWN COOKIN’ Try this blue ribbon dessert with a cup of hot tea or coffee and give your tastebuds a treat. Enjoy a variety of Hometown Happenings in every issue showcasing the people, places, and events occurring in the Tri County area. Email Ashly to submit yours office@hometown-living.com 76 91 100 108

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8 tri county living magazine Matt, Heather, Gatlyn (9), Georgia Lee (6) & Guy David (2) Martin Tri County Living Magazine© is published annually by Hometown Living, LLC. hometown-living.com 502 N Main Street PMB 116 | Weatherford, TX 76086 817.599.6167 | PROUDLY PRINTED IN THE USA All rights reserved. Copies or reproduction of this publication in whole or in part is strictly prohibited without expressed written authorization from the publisher. Every effort is made to ensure the accuracy of the information contained herein. Advertising is subject to omission, errors, and other changes without notice. WRITERS Sabrina Forse Susan Turner Jewellee Kuenstler PHOTOGRAPHERS Kim Bearden Photography Captured Photography, Tifani Smith CREATIVE | DESIGN Susan Avery, Lead Robin Harrison, CG2 SALES ACCOUNT MGR Johnna Page johnnapage@yahoo.com CLIENT RELATIONS COORDINATOR Ashly Caffee office@hometown-living.com PUBLISHERS Matt & Heather Martin matt@hometown-living.com Casey & Trisha Perkins casey@hometown-living.com { PUBLISHER’S LETTER } Prayers for health, hope, JOY, and peace to you and yours in 2021, Heather Lundgren Martin “Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.” - Romans 12:12 How can I be Joyful in God this year? Do you have a resolution to be Joyful but don’t know where to start? 5 steps for a JOYful life: 1. Spend time with the Lord more regularly. Get by yourself even for 5 minutes in the morning. Luke 5:16 “But he (Jesus) would withdraw to desolate places and pray.” 2. Read your Bible. Talk to God in Prayer. 2 Timothy 3:16 “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.” 3. Remember who is Lord over your life. Don’t let your circumstances dictate who you are or how you feel. Isaiah 40:8 “Grass dries up, and flowers wither, but our God’s word will last forever.” 4. Listen to worship music instead of your regular playlist. Try the local Christian radio station & AirOne on Alexa. Psalm 71:23 “My lips will shout for joy, when I sing praises to you; my soul also, which you have redeemed.” 5. Watch out for negative thoughts. Isaiah 26:3 “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” Freelancer Wanted! We are always in search for great local talent. If you would like to write or take pictures for any of our area markets please contact our office at 817.599.6167 or email us at heather@hometown-living.com Hello, We are so excited to share our second issue of TCL with you! It has often been said “Choose a job you love and you’ll never have to work a day in your life.” When I think about the hours spent compiling this edition this quote comes to mind, that’s not to say that it wasn’t hard work, but after 12 years I still LOVE what I do and am so thankful for it. Working alongside lifelong friends is just a perk of the job (check out Johnna’s Page for some great insights to implement in 2021). Thank you to Kim Bearden for the amazing pictures this issue (I love that she photographed my wedding 14 years ago & now we get to work together on this project). If you are interested in doing freelance photography in Jones, Taylor, Shackelford, or Haskell counties please call us at 325-668-6662 or email office@hometown-living.com The Pearls of Wisdom series are interviews of Tri County residents from the greatest generation. My grandmother, Dorothy Lundgren, is among this generation, and while she had no interest in “being featured” she truly is the inspiration behind my desire to capture the infinite wisdom and authenticity this generation possesses. The countless hours spent visiting over a glass of tea at her kitchen table are some of my happiest moments. Whether its hearing stories of days gone by or just enjoying a hand of cards there really is no other place I would rather be. I know we can all learn from the insights shared from these sweet stories of a life well lived and I hope you enjoy them as much as I have. Look for more in 2022 and feel free to write us with article suggestions and people profiles that are near and dear to your heart. We sincerely thank our advertisers for their participation and for our readers for supporting them by shopping local and for telling them you enjoyed this publication. Dorothy Lundgren and Heather Lundgren Martin

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10 tri county living magazine { johnna’s PAGE } I hope this issue of Tri County Living finds you safe and healthy. 2020was no doubt one of the most challenging years we have experienced. We learned to let go, to be grateful, and not take things for granted- things like school, in person worship, gatherings with family and friends, birthday parties, weddings, graduations, stock shows, annual community events, hugs, handshakes, smiles, and even toilet paper! In 2012, I read the book One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp. The book challenges readers to cultivate a habit of gratitude by creating a list of 1000 gifts, not a list of gifts you want but of gifts you already have. I took the challenge and have continued to count my gifts to this day. Since then, I have counted over 26,000 gifts in my journal and every day, God opens my eyes to even more gifts. This simple daily habit has changed my life and my perspective. Even in some of the most challenging times in my life, including this year, I have seen God’s grace and love for me through the little gifts He gives me every day. Gifts include the big things like family, health, food and shelter, and even the small things like a beautiful sunset, a redbird on my porch, or a kind word from a friend. I want to challenge you to start a list of your own this year. I promise this one daily habit can and will change your life. Rather than dwelling on the negative, being fearful of the unknown and thinking of all you don’t have, counting gifts can change your perspective by simply helping you to refocus and open your eyes to God’s goodness and grace. Additionally, practicing gratitude has been scientifically proven to improve physical and psychological health, enhance empathy, reduce aggression, improve sleep, improve self-esteem, increase mental strength, and open the door to more relationships. Here are just a few of the gifts I have counted and been thankful for this past year -Living in a small community. -The many people and organizations who make our area great- You will find many highlighted in this issue. -The older generation who have so much wisdom and experience to share. -A slower pace and time to really soak up and enjoy my little family. -Technology and the ability to stay connected and to worship from home when we couldn’t worship in person. -Our health and access to high quality healthcare close to home. -Quality school systems and the teachers and administration who have worked tirelessly to ensure that our children are safe and receive the best education possible. -Being able to enjoy hometown tourism, especially during a time when travel has been so limited. Make sure to checkout our Hometown Tourism section and learn more about what our neighboring towns have to offer. -All of you, our readers- Your support, kind words, and inspiring stories have been so encouraging. -And finally, the many advertisers who make this magazine possible. Please make sure to let them know you appreciate their support. Keep shopping locally and utilizing the many services that are available right here in our own area. It is our hope and prayer that this issue will not only inspire and encourage you but remind you of how much we have to be thankful for by living here in the Tri County area. I hope you will accept the challenge to cultivate a habit of gratitude by counting your gifts this year and remember these words from 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, “Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Happy 2021! We made it! Johnna Page Tri County Account Mana er Johnna, Sutton & Quincy Page Photos by Wright Shot Photography

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Pearls of W I S D O M Fromworld wars, a great depression, and a rapid increase in technological advances we can all agree that the world we live in has changed drastically over the last 100 years. We were thankful to visit with a few Tri County residents from the greatest generation who have witnessed and lived through these events. Their perspective offers us all the opportunity to learn from their experiences. { 4 PART SERIES } DALLAS ACKLIN WILMA JO TUCKER MITCHELL MARY JO WILLIAMSON BLANKENSHIP REFUGIO GRANADO GONZALES = = W Page 36 Page 26 Page 15 Page 42 Lovingly Written By JEWELLEE KUENSTLER 14 tri county living magazine

15 hometown living at its best = = W Pearls of Wisdom, Part 1 Dallas Acklin of Hamlin { 93 Ye a r s O l d | Bo r n Novemb e r 1 1 , 1 92 7 } By JEWELLEE KUENSTLER Photos provided by The Acklin Family Dallas Franklin Acklin, native of Jones County, endured a life of rural poverty with a laugh in his heart and a dance in his step. Plumber, tractor mechanic, farmer, and cowman, his jobs show a cross-section of the economy for rural West Texas during themiddle of the 20th century. Work was hard and paid little, but with a glowing sense of humor and his family by his side, Acklin left a legacy of a strong work ethic and a sense of trustworthiness to his community. He loves people, almost as much as he loves dancing, which shows that at the core of his being, he loves life! Dallas Franklin Acklin was born on November 11, 1927, in the Hamlin home of the doctor that delivered him! His family actually lived in Radium, a small community between Hamlin and Anson. Growing up, his family farmed land around Radium in a system referred to as “shared farming” where the tenants would work the land and the landowners would supply the equipment. His father, C.F. Acklin, Sr. originally came from East Texas where hewas a barber. Moving toWest Texas, he decided to try his hand at farming. They raised a variety of crops such as cotton, milo, gooseneck maize, wheat, as well as vegetables that they would take to town and trade for other supplies they needed. Adding to the farm resources were four milk cows that Acklin laughingly remembers, “drinking the milk straight from the teat! And that’s no lie!” His mother, Gertrude, was a busy woman with nine children, Above: Lois and Dallas at their 70th wedding anniversary Left: Dallas Acklin as a young man

16 tri county living magazine = = W Pearls of Wisdom housework andmeals tobe seenafter, sewing to keep her family clothed, as well as, sewing cotton sacks. And she worked in the fields. As if farming during the Depression wasn’t hard enough, Acklin recalls it only got more difficult when World War II hit. “All the boys were going into the service and all the girls had to work in the airplane factories.” Acklin didn’t reach drafting age until the end of the war, and the draft board knew he was needed on the farm as an essential worker, but his oldest brother, Walter served and he recalls it was a “rough deal”. Thinking back evokes memories of the difficulties of farming during the war, “You had to have a stamp to buy gasoline. You couldn’t buy tires or gasoline without stamps. No tires. If you ruined a tire, you would have to use a boot [patch] to stick in the hole and cement it in.” America has been built on the backs of farmers all the way to the colonial times, and it has seldom been without hard work, and even harder times. Acklin relives the toughest season he had as a farmer, “Back during the drought, we planted cotton and just a Top: Dallas Acklin and friend at the Hamlin City Limit sign Bottom: Lois and Dallas Acklin Right: Dallas Acklin working on a tractor

17 hometown living at its best Through a life of hard work, Acklin never lost his zeal for life or his sense of humor. “He is one of those men that if he saw you in the store, he would do something silly like dance you down the aisle! He loves people,” expresses his granddaughter, Jori Van Cleave. He and his wife of over seventy years, Lois, went dancing every weekend until the social restrictions from the COVID Pandemic hit. Just one more historical moment Acklin has lived through. little bit came up on the Sandy Hill. It wasn’t enough to gather. My neighbor told me to grab a sack and we went out and gathered some…[finally, we] threw our sacks down and quit. Went to town and talked about what we were going to do. We decided to move to Arizona to find work. We loaded our cars up with our things and our kids and told our parents we were going to go find work…We stayed in Arizona for about three months and then came back home to farm because it rained pretty good.” Like many children living in rural communities during the 1930s, Acklin only went to school until the 6th grade and then was needed at home to help with the farming. When asked about any clothing fads he remembers from his youth, he describes the “uniform” of the poor rural children from the Depression Era, “Overalls were popular. Most kids wore blue denim ones. Half the time, we didn’t wear shoes. It was natural to go barefooted.” Yet, through a life of hard work, he never lost his zeal for life or his sense of humor. “He is one of those men that if he saw you in the store, he would do something silly like dance you down the aisle! He loves people,” expresses his granddaughter, Jori VanCleave. He and his wife of over seventy years, Lois, went dancing every weekend until the social restrictions from the COVID Pandemic hit. Just one more historical moment Acklin has lived through. When asked about advice for today’s youth, he states, “I would tell them to learn some common horse sense. They need to learn to take care of their families someday.” He worries that this generation is so concerned with material things and how that defines them to others. This is a foreign concept for a man that grew up with practically nothing, but everyone else around him was in the same boat. He didn’t view this as deprivation, but as being able to see what really matters, like hard work, fairness, and doing what you need to do to support your family. “I wanted to make sure I did my work right and was fair on my price,” Aklin adds when asked about the most important lesson he has learned throughout his life. Maybe doing a good job and being fair in our interactions with others is a lesson we could all take to heart. † Dallas and Lois kissing at their 70th wedding anniversary

This past year was like nothing we have ever experienced. Our retail businesses did the best they could to navigate all the things COVID-19 threw at them. I could not be prouder of our community and our neighbors. They did a wonder ful job shopping local and supporting each other. Small communities have always rallied in times of travesty, and 2020 was no different. We are fortunate in this area to have wonder ful, long-standing retail stores. From unique boutiques to a vast selection of antiques, Haskell, Jones and Shackelford Counties are unique shopping destinations. Nestled in the heart of our historic downtowns, you can shop, visit museums, and experience culture. Downtowns are the heart of all our communities. Over the years, we have worked hard to beautify our downtowns. Buildings have been renovated, painted, new signage has been installed. Business owners have invested their time and money into making our communities a wonder ful place to visit. We invite you to experience retail at its finest. Plan a day trip. Bring a group. Stay the weekend. We can accommodate you. Shop Haskell, Jones and Shackleford Counties and help us make 2021 a fabulous year. Hometown Tourism Jimi Coplen Development or of Haskell Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • H askell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell • Shackelford • Jones • Haskell •

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26 tri county living magazine Refugio Granado Gonzales, was born and raised in Knott, Texas. This small community in Howard County in far West Texas was an agricultural area. Child of immigrant parents from Mexico, Gonzales was raised to embrace the American Dream. He fought for the realization of that dream through hard work and perseverance, but one of the hardest stumbling blocks was the prejudice he encountered along the way. Yet, this did not stop him from teaching the essential lessons of life to his children, which include the importance of love, family, and giving to others, even if you have little to give. Although the American Dream may have lost its luster along the way, he has continued to be a proud American who states that his favorite holiday is the 4th of July! Gonzales was born on April 20, 1930 to Jose and Antonia Gonzales. His father was a farmer and his mother was a stay-at-home mom watching over six growing children. She gave love generously as he recalls birthday celebrations growing up, “My mother would cook a meal in honor of my birthday. It was not so much what she cooked, but how she cooked it. She cooked with such happiness and joy. It made me feel so loved.” The Depression Era was very hard on small rural farming communities, and it proved no different for little Knott, Texas. “I remember hearing, ‘Andale, quide su pantalone porque no va aver mas,’ [which] meant you better take care of your clothes, because there was not money for more clothes.” = = W Pearls of Wisdom, Part 2 Refugio Granado Gonzales of Stamford { 90 Ye a r s O l d | Bo r n Ap r i l 20, 1 930 } By JEWELLEE KUENSTLER Photos provided by The Gonzales Family ABove Refugio Gonzales age 14 Right Refugio Gonzales

27 hometown living at its best Growing up, he cites his brother as his best friend, “We liked towork on cars and learn how to fix things. My brother and I liked to watch baseball games.” This mechanical skill is still part of his daily life as he enjoys taking broken lawn mowers and restoring them to a working tool again. Throughout his life he has sold soda pop, picked cotton, driven tractors and farmed. Farming is where his heart lies. As he tells it, “My favorite job was farming because I was able to provide for my family and my children would be able to grow up in one place and always have a home to live in, and food to eat, and attend school.” Education was very important to Gonzales, having been denied one growing up, “I did not have the opportunity to attend school, because we were not allowed to go to school. Mexican children were not welcome.” One of the hardest stumbling blocks for Gonzales was the prejudice he encountered while working to achieve the American Dream. Yet, this did not stop him from teaching the essential lessons of life to his children, which includeD the importance of love, family, and giving to others, even if you have little to give. Refugio Gonzales and nephew, 1958 ABove Refugio Gonzales age 19

28 tri county living magazine This was not the only prejudice Gonzales would experience, “The hardest part of being in the workforce was to face prejudice. It was a feeling of helplessness to hear you could not have a job because you were a Mexican and the job you could do, could only be given to an Americano.” During these difficult trials, he turned to his faith to see him through. Faith is an intricate part of his character, something that he has taken pride in instilling in his own family. Something that he proudly passes down to his grandchildren. In 1958, Gonzales and his wife, = = W Pearls of Wisdom Juanita & Refugio Gonzales, 1958 Refugio operating a cotton stripper during harvest

29 hometown living at its best Faith is an intricate part of his character, something that he has taken pride in instilling in his own family. Something that he proudly passes down to his grandchildren. RIGHT: Refugio with grandson Nicholas (who later passed away from liver failure) ABOVE: Refugio with sons and sons-in-law ABOVE: Refugio with his wife Juanita Juanita, came to the Stamford area in search of a job and a place to put down roots for their future family. Shortly after starting his own family, tragedy struck. Juanita’s mother died suddenly leaving behind young children. Without hesitation, Gonzales stepped up and welcomed those children into his home and provided for them. This shows the character of the man; family comes first. He asserts that his greatest accomplishment is his family and the hardest thing he had to overcome was poverty. Through his faith, hard work and perseverance he accomplished his goal of achieving the American Dream. His family says that he encourages relatives from Mexico to come to America to prosper, educate your children, and make a better life.

30 tri county living magazine = = W Pearls of Wisdom Throughout his ninety years he says the collapse of the Berlin Wall was something that resonated with him. Perhaps it was because this marked an end of persecution to a people, and he could relate to that feeling. This man grew up in the “land of opportunity” when opportunities were often denied him because of the color of his skin. But the advice he gives to the youth of today is not filled with bitterness or a hatred for the nation. Instead he states, “I have learned that respect is essential. Respect for each other, respect of one’s self.” Gonzales is still active, tinkering with his lawn mowers, gardening, and spending time in prayer each day. He loves his family and they love spending time with him, which is apparent from the childish giggles and squeals that can be heard from their backyard. When asked about any advice for the youth of today entering theworkforce, he sagely advises, “Be grateful to be present in this moment and for the opportunities that are yours today. Everything that is worth having is worth earning.” Wise words that many in our world could do with hearing. † Right Refugio with grandson, Juan Andres Gonzales Refugio with grandsons, Juan Andres Gonzales and Carlos Robles Through his faith, hard work and perseverance he accomplished his goal of achieving the American Dream. His family says that he encourages relatives from Mexico to come to America to prosper, educate their children, and make a better life.

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34 tri county living magazine Stamford hometown happenings T he community was relieved that the TCR was not put on hold this year like so many other events in 2020. People near and far look forward to attending each year proving it was named accurately as the Texas Cowboy Reunion. A big thank you to the directors and chairpersons for making it possible. Texas Cowboy Reunion Teamroping Slack: Header Colton Spalding, Hamlin & Heeler Wyatt Heathington, Stamford UPRA Cinch UFR: TCR was awarded the high paying and #1 Rodeo of the year for 2020 Matt Mueller, President and General Manager (pictured) Kevin McCright, Vice President (pictured) Rex Ford, Treasurer, Jim Astin, Secretary Pat Pierce, Fareed Hassen, Don Welch The Hardin-Simmons Cowboy Band ... was invited to play at the Texas Cowboy Reunion Rodeo in 1935 and have continued playing almost every year since. 2020 was no exception regardless of the pandemic.

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36 tri county living magazine = = W Pearls of Wisdom, Part 3 Wilma Jo Tucker Mitchell of Shackelford County { 94 Ye a r s O l d | Bo r n Oc t o b e r 30, 1 926 } Written by JEWELLEE KUENSTLER Photos provided by THE MITCHELL FAMILY Above: Wilma Jo at Natchitoches, Louisiana, 1986. Left: Wilma Jo at age 18, 1943. Wilma Jo Tucker Mitchell, life-long resident of Shackelford County, has experienced life changing world events such as the Great Depression, World War II, the Korean War, a moon landing, the Vietnam War, and the terrorist attacks of 9/11. She is proud of the life that she has lived, experiences she has had; all are memories she cherishes. One sees a lot of life in 94 years- the good, the bad, and sometimes, the ugly. Like most people who have lived a long life, the first thing she said to me, when I asked if I could interview her was, “Well, I really haven’t done anything.” But as we talked, more andmore experiences came out, and by the end of the interview, it was clear, that this was a full life, and a life she loved. Wilma Jo Tucker Mitchell was born in the small town of Wolfforth in Lubbock County on October 30, 1925. Her father, who owned and operated gravel trucks, and older brother were working on the construction for Texas Tech College. A few years after her birth, the family moved to Stephenville to live on her grandfather’s farm. “We lived there for two years and I went toa small country school and had to walk more than a mile to school,” recalls Mitchell. In 1935, the family moved to the town of Albany. At this time, her father converted his gravel trucks to water trucks and began to haul fresh water for people and the new oil wells that were sprouting up quickly. He received five dollars a load for hauling water. Mitchell and her siblings attended school in Albany and remembers taking in the movies on ‘family night,’ where the entire family could go to the movies for a discounted rate. Thinking back, Mitchell remembers that they didn’t have a lot of money during the Depression,

37 hometown living at its best Thinking Back Mitchell remembers that they didn’t have a lot of money during the Depression, but they were not short on entertainment. but they were not short on entertainment. One of her fondest memories of growing up was when her dad would come home from a long day at work. Even though he was exhausted, after supper he would get out his guitar and sing and play for entertainment. “It was the only entertainment we had. We couldn’t even afford a radio. We would sing with him. I’ll always remember that,”Mitchell says fondly. Her father’s selflessness during the Depression resonated with Mitchell. She recalls a time during high school when she wanted a bicycle. Then a short time later, she wanted to join thebandandplay the saxophone. Continuing with the story, Mitchell recounts, “My mom pulled me to the side and said I could only get one [the bicycle or the saxophone], which would I rather have. I chose the saxophone. Shortly after that, my dad went to the bank and got a loan for $50 to buy me a saxophone.” With pride in her voice, she adds, “I still have the cancelled check to remind me of his sacrifice.” Left: Wilma Jo and her sister Juanita, 1928. Below: Mom, Fannie Dare Tucker andWilma Jo, 1929. Above: Wilma Jo and her sister, Juanita, 1930.

38 tri county living magazine = = W Pearls of Wisdom Mitchell graduated from AHS in 1942 and went to live with her older sister and brother-in-law in Grand Prairie. America’s involvement in World War II was all encompassing and she procured a job with the Aircraft X-ray company, x-raying airplane parts to determine any defects. Another sister, Juanita, had a job “bucking rivets” at North American Aviation in Grand Prairie, another defense job. [Bucking rivets refers to holding the bucking bar which acts as an anvil while another person operated the rivet gun.] Both sisters would stay at their jobs until the end of the war. It was during this time of personal independence and making their own money that Mitchell and her sister could give back to their family. While they were both in Grand Prairie their father’s car “conked out.” Mitchell recalls, “He had to have a car and bought a used two-door Mercury, maroon color, and my sister and I made the payments. Juanita would pay one month, and I would pay the next month. We didn’t have anywhere to spend our money except going to the movies. I wonder how many kids would do this for their parents today?” Mitchell went on to marry a local boy from Albany, R.P. Mitchell, and they had a son, Marshall. She worked in the oil industry until the bust in the 1980s. Although a blow at first, it turned into a blessing that she still cherishes. “I was a docent [at the Old Jail Art Center]”, recalls Mitchell. Reilly Nail and his cousin, Bill Bomar, were just establishing this new art museum in Albany with an inherited old jail and the family’s personal art collection. Nail saw Mitchell’s administrative skills as an asset that would be beneficial to the museum. Nail had acquired a grant for a computer in order to digitize the museum’s inventory. Digitizing the collection became Mitchell’s new job. She was given a year deadline, but completed it in just a matter of months. With pride she recalls that only two other museums in the state of Texas had this at the time. She would continue working for the Old Jail Art Center for ten years and helpedmold it into the amazing museum it has become! Mitchell lists this as her favorite job throughout her career. Although retired, Mitchell did not slow down. She Above: Wilma Jo in front of the two-door Mercury coupe that she and her sister made the payments on for her father. Above: Wilma Jo ( far left) and Nancy Green ( far right) at the Red Square in Russia, 1989.

39 hometown living at its best has traveled to over forty countries, all around the world. Her fondest trip was her first overseas venture to Russia with friend, Nancy Green. This was in 1989, just as the USSR was collapsing. As they went sightseeing, they quickly realized that they were being followed by the KGB since they were American tourists! At first this was daunting, but one day, as they were shopping, Green wanted to return to the hotel room. Although Mitchell still had some shopping to do, they agreed to meet back at the hotel. As she recounts, “She started walking and found herself lost. You’ll never believe it, but the KGB guy pulled up and offered to take her back to her hotel!” † When asked what her advice for youth today who are entering the job force: “Like what you do and give it 100% of what you have.” When asked about new technology: “I love texting and it is so much easier to communicate.” Which moment in history are you most grateful to have lived through: “The Great Depression. It taught me to appreciate values instead of material items.” Greater words have never been spoken! Above: Wilma Jo at the Country Music Hall of Fame in Nashville, Tennessee, 1986. (Hanging withWillie) Above: Wilma Jo riding an elephant on her 75th birthday in Thailand, 2000.

41 hometown living at its best If This Dirt This Dirt Could Talk” video series. We hope we do the stories justice and are grateful to the families and individuals who have graciously entrusted their stories to us. Our first ten episodes are from Stonewall County, Texas on the J.D. Patterson Ranch. Butch Nuding, a fourth-generation rancher, shares stories from his time on the ranch and how the ranch came to be. We feature even more stories and tales from West Texas, beyond the Patterson Ranch. Other ranches, landmarks and individuals are also highlighted in the series. The series lives on our website ekdahlrealestate.net. You can also visit any of our social media accounts to check them out. We recommend liking or following the pages to never miss an episode. Tune in to be a part of our mission of making sure these stories are never forgotten. Could Talk Every property has something unique. The views - of course - are always a sight to take in. But what amazes us is the realization that only a handful of people have stirred up the dirt and taken in the views of the property because, it has been in the same family for over a hundred years, or owned by only a handful of owners. Regardless, the number of people who have crossed the property line isn’t in the hundreds or thousands, it’s probably just a couple dozen. Beyond that though, are the stories each property holds from those few dozen’s adventures. From tall tales of the old west to cowboy stories and hunting legends, the stories are what really make a property a special place. It is our privilege to hear those stories from landowners. In an effort, to make sure all those stories are never forgotten we started the “If Experience the Ekdahl Edge | www.ekdahlrealestate.net | 325-773-3676 @ekdahlrealestate @ekdahlrealestate @EkdahlNelson Ekdahl Nelson Real Estate Ekdahl Nelson Real Estate As a ranch broker, we have seen a lot of dirt over the years. Let’s Connect. Offices and agents in Abilene, Anson, Aspermont, Hamlin, Stamford, Snyder, Stephenville and Rotan.

42 tri county living magazine = = W Pearls of Wisdom, Part 4 Mary Jo Williamson Blankenship of Anson { 93 Ye a r s O l d | Bo r n Novemb e r 1 0, 1 92 7 } By JEWELLEE KUENSTLER Photos provided by THE BLANKENSHIP FAMILY Left: Mary Jo Williamson Blankenship, 1942. Mary Jo Williamson Blankenship was born and raised in Anson, Texas. Although her physical presence has revolved around a small West Texas town, her life and legacy has encompassed all those that have had the good fortune to be placed in her path. Education has always held an important place for Blankenship and her life reflects this. Throughout her ninety-plus years, she has held to a few core beliefs, mainly to give your best at whatever you attempt, be dependable, and punctuality is a must! Mary Jo Williamson Blankenship was born to George Washington and Mary Belle Saunders Williamson on November 10, 1927. The youngest of six children, she grew up in an agricultural community. A good work ethic was instilled in her at an early age. Her father was a cotton gin owner and cotton buyer. Her mother worked outside the home as a telephone operator and then during World War II, in a dry-cleaning store. Looking back on her childhood, which was in the years of the Depression, she reminisces, “One thing that impressed me was how people survived without any government programs. People helped each other.” These were lessons that became part of her core character traits. When asked about her first job, she replies, “When I was

43 hometown living at its best Looking back on her childhood which was in the years of the Depression, she reminisces, “One thing that impressed me was how people survived without any government programs. People helped each other.” These were lessons that became part of her core character traits. Top: Attending a birthday party with neighbor kids in 1937 complete with a homemade cake. Bottom Mary Jo and her brother DonWilliamson, 1936. 8 years old, my Daddy bought me ten chickens. I had to get up early to feed and water them before school. I got to keep the money from selling the eggs.” Again, teaching that hard work pays off. As a teenager, Blankenship worked in her family’s drug store as a “soda jerk”. (This was the person that operated the soda fountain.) Along with her friends, she enjoyed past times of the day such as, “roller skating, playing hop-scotch, and playing jacks on the sidewalk.” Hair styles changed along with their age, starting out with long curls, then moving on to a page-boy haircut that would be worn in a snood in hot weather. Most clothes were home-made and included pleated skirts, sweaters and brown and white saddle oxford shoes. She loved math and music, but admits she was a shy student. However, she participated in UIL Poetry, band, andwas active in her church. During the war years, she recalls, “Everything was rationed – food, shoes, gas, and tires. Women, young and old, had to keep businesses open.” On a more melancholy note, she laments, “The many young men who lost their life so soon after they graduated from high school.” Upon graduating from Anson High School, Blankenship first attendedAbilene Christian College (now ACU) for one year. She transferred to North Texas University Teachers College (now North Texas University) where she received her Bachelor of Business Administration degree. Her first job after college was at the U.S. Agricultural Office. She remembers that, “My starting salary was $75 a month, and nine years later

44 tri county living magazine = = W Pearls of Wisdom I was earning $425 a month. But we got no benefits, not even paying into Social Security.” But education was important to Blankenship and when she was 53 years old, she returned to McMurry University to earn her Teacher Certification. She applied and was hired at Anson ISD as a third-grade teacher. This was her favorite job. She elaborates, “I enjoyed watching the shy children become more self-confident by the end of the year.” Her passion to aid and mold these young children were noticed by her fellow teachers. One of her co-teachers, Belinda Hagler Heller had this to add, “She was a natural teacher who obviously loved her students. She was a super hard worker and had a great work ethic.” Although this was her favorite job, the accomplishment she is most proud of is her four children. She worked hard to instill in them, the lessons that her parents instilled in her, “My Mother and Daddy, they taught us to help others, not be wasteful, and do what you can tomake your community a better place to live.” When asked about advice for young people today, she says, “Do your best every day and give a full day’s work every day. Be dependable and on time. Be patient, live within your budget, ask for advice or help, and treat everyone with respect.” Great advice from a woman who mirrors these qualities in her everyday life. TheCOVIDPandemic is just onemorehistorical event that Blankenship can add to her impressive resume of life events. Out of all these moments, Blankenship states that the end of World War II is the one that sticks out in her memory, “People were driving around town honking their horns, and you had the feeling that the men and women in servicewould come home and lifewould soon be normal again.” This statement rings as true today as it did in 1945, because isn’t this what our nation is grasping for during the present day, a return to normalcy. But it is the culmination of these life changing, challenging events that formed the character of Blankenship. And I can honestly say, she has never been broken, but came out sharper and more resilient. We can all take a page from this book of life. † Mary Jo Williamson Blankenship at age 16 in 1943 in front of a Pontiac coupe. Leon and Mary Jo Blankenship attending the TCR Rodeo in Stamford in 1949.

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46 tri county living magazine H eld at the Bethel Lutheran Church in the Swedish community of Ericksdahl, this delicious authentic feast is hosted by the church every two years in February. Tena Tankersley is the event Chairperson along wi th Co-Chai rs Annette Wi l son, Grace Stasny, & Patsy Richards. Church members prepare a Swedish menu from scratch complete with crowd favorites, ostakaka (cheese cake/swedish custard), kottbullar (meatballs), appel krisp (apple crisp), and ragbrod (rye bread). Phil Swenson & Becky Hanson Lavada Rhodes, & Connie Shurley Cindy Stenholm & David Lundgren Swedish Smorgasbord FEBRUARY 2020 Ericksdahl hometown happenings

47 hometown living at its best 1 c. white syrup 1 c. butter 1 c. sugar 1 egg 1 tsp. vinegar Add enough flour to mixture to make dough stiff. Roll, cut and bake. Mrs. C.H. Peterson KOTTBULLAR (SWEDISH MEATBALLS) INGREDIENTS PEPPARKAKOR (GINGER COOKIES) 1 ¼ lb. ground beef ¼ lb. ground pork 1 ½ c. soft breadcrumbs (about 3 slices) 1 c. light cream or half & half ½ c. chopped onion 1 T. butter or margarine 1 egg ¼ tsp. ginger Have meats ground together twice. Soak bread in cream about 5 minutes. Cook onion in 1 tablespoon butter until tender. Combine meat, crumb mixture, egg, onion and seasonings. Beat vigorously until fluffy (about 5 minutes at medium speed with electric mixer, plus 8 minutes by hand). Form into 1 ½ inch balls (mixture will be soft). Brown in 2 tablespoons butter, shaking skillet to keep balls round. Remove meatballs. Stir flour into drippings in skillet. Add broth, water and coffee. Heat and stir until gravy thickens. Return meatballs to gravy; cover and cook slowly about 30 minutes, basting occasionally. Makes about 3 dozen meatballs. Mrs. Ray Reves INGREDIENTS dash of nutmeg salt and pepper (to taste) 2 T. butter or margarine 2 T. all-purpose flour ¾ c. canned condensed beef broth ¼ c. cold water ¼ tsp. instant coffee 1 tsp. cinnamon 1 tsp. ginger 1 tsp. cloves 1 tsp. baking soda flour

48 tri county living magazine 4th generation Ericksdahl Swedes, Georgia Lee Martin (5yr) & Pyper Wright (8yr) Dorothy Lundgren, Tuvonna Lundgren, Fern Ballard, & Nell Rosenquist These talented ladies head up the Swedish Coffee Bread table and keep the children’s baskets full of cookies to serve guests. Lisa Patton & Johnna Oman Page Grace Stasny & Tena Tankersley Belinda Heller, Taimi Wendeborn, Adria Martinez, Caitlin Richards, Jan Muehlstein Ericksdahl hometown happenings

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50 tri county living magazine Holly Jolly C RISTMAS CLASSIC Stamford hometown happenings photos by | audra arendall, stamford star

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52 tri county living magazine Situated just 200 miles away from Arlington, Stamford -like most Central/ West Texas cities- roots for what’s considered the home team, the Dallas Cowboys. Now, a hometown athlete is giving Stamford football fans a reason to slip into black-and-yellow jerseys. “I’ve been aCowboys fanmy entire life. Being from Texas, the Cowboys are America’s team. We still love the Cowboys in Stamford, but we’ve definitely seen a shift in our support. We are an extremely large family situated all over the world; we come together on game day and root for Pittsburgh. We put on our Steelers jerseys, set out our flags and shakeour terrible towels to support family,” said Titania McGee. That’s because on game-day McGee is cheering on her cousin, NFL wide receiver and Pittsburgh Steeler, James Washington. JAMES “Steeling” the show in the NFL Written by: SABRINA FORSE // Photos by: KIM BEARDEN PHOTOGRAPHY & PROVIDED BY J. WASHINGTONMGT. A hometow n standout is

53 hometown living at its best FROM STAMFORD T EXAS TO THE NFL END ZON E WASHINGTON we come together on game day and root for Pittsburgh. We put on our Steelers jerseys, set out our flags and shake our terrible towels to support family. H

54 tri county living magazine From Stamford High School to Oklahoma State University to the NFL, Washington’s cheering section has punctuated his journey with advice, encouragement, and accountability. “I truly appreciate the support of my family and hometown. I am blessed to be in the position I am. I am proud to be a product of Stamford and I hope my journey helps set up others for success,” said James Washington. Washington’s journey started likemost others in a small town. “In a smaller community, athletes get to play every sport and James tried it all. He was naturally gifted at basketball. I believe he had the first dunk in the new gym his freshman year,” recalled McGee. “He excelled at track, football, and surprisingly took an extreme interest in playing tennis, a sport that his mother played in high school.” Football though, wasn’t Washington’s first passion. “Basketball was the sport that I grew up playing. If I was a little taller, I would’ve loved to play professional basketball, but everything works out for the best,” said Washington. “I didn’t start football until the seventh grade. I was just learning the fundamentals but really started loving football my sophomore year of high school.” Washington was part of the Stamford High School Bulldogteamthatmade the journey to the Texas High School 1-A Division 1 Championships for three years in a row, winning back-to-back championships in 2012 and 2013. “I remember playing deep into the play-offs and then getting into the state championship. It was definitely a fun ride getting to play at Jerry’s World and to experience that with the team.” Washington remembers the team’s chemistry off the field was just as significant. “The relationships and friendships I made growing up in Stamford were special. My friend’s parents always welcomed me into their homes like I was one of their own. My parents definitely gave me a good upbringing.” JAMES WASHIN GTON

55 hometown living at its best Football though, wasn’t Washington’s first passion. “Basketball was the sport that I grew up playing. If I was a little taller, I would’ve loved to play professional basketball, but everything works out for the best,” said Washington.

56 tri county living magazine His stats made Washington a stand-out player and earned the attention of college scouts. Washington had seventy-three receptions for 1,331 yards, 24 touchdowns as a receiver, 42 tackles and seven interceptions while playing in the blue and white Bulldog uniform his senior year. He went on to play for Oklahoma State University collecting impressive honors such as 2015 Second-Team All-Big 12, 2016 First Team All-Big 12 and back-to-back recognition in 2015 and 2016 with the Thurman Thomas Award, given to OSU’s Outstanding Offensive Player of the Year. He was also the Alamo Bowl Offensive MVP in 2016. With his success, Washington had a decision to make, finish college or enter the NFL draft. “I had written my mom a letter and promised her I would be the first in my family to get a college degree. I couldn’t go back on my promise,” explainedWashington. “Most importantly, a degree gives me something to fall back on.” Washington opted to play his senior year. His teammates voted him Team Captain for the second year in a row. He would go on to become an All-American, First-Team All-Big 12, Earl Campbell Tyler Rose Award Finalist, Maxwell Award Semifinalist, a three-time winner of the Thurman Thomas Award and the winner of the 2017 Biletnikoff Award. The Biletnikoff Award is a prestigious award given to the nation’s best offensive college football player. “When James won the Biletnikoff Award, he didn’t take the opportunity to boast about himself. He maximized the moment by recognizing the other wide receivers that played alongside him. He used the moment to build up that lifelong brotherhood,” said McGee. “James understands how to take a situation and make it an inclusive moment for others instead of making it all about him.” Just months later, Washington would keep that promise to his mother. He graduated from Oklahoma State University with a degree in Agribusiness. “Growing up in Stamford, ranching is something I knew. I worked at Haskell Feeds in high school. They say, ‘stick with what you know’ and ranching is something I know.” In 2018, the NFL would give Washington a chance to showcase something else he knew- football. The Pittsburgh Steelers selected Washington as their secondround draft pick and the sixtieth pick overall. However, learning his fatewas aphone call that Washington almost JAMES WASHINGTON

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